As the expression goes, “The path isn’t always straight.” Far from it. Finding our way, in career and life, can come with the occasional detour and maybe even a pothole (or two). That’s why having a trusted guide we can look to when we need directions or a jump start is helpful. It’s a lesson I learned firsthand as I began my career in family medicine.
We often hear about the benefits mentees gain as the recipients of coaching from older or more experienced individuals. However, these relationships are a two-way street, providing value and delivering impact for both involved. For those still debating whether to take up the mantle of mentorship, here are a few reasons to consider it:
Personal fulfillment: As a member of a family of educators, I’ve learned that serving as a teacher isn’t restricted to the classroom. Helping someone harness their passion and potential and achieve that “aha” moment is incredibly rewarding. No matter the field, the chance to inspire and guide others in their journeys gives us purpose. It’s humbling to play a role in supporting and nurturing someone’s growth.
Career perspective: Serving as a mentor often brings things full circle. Seeing someone else decide to practice family medicine reinforces why I chose this profession in the first place: to connect with and care for patients. Mentorship can also lead to self-reflection, reminding us of our priorities and values. Stepping into this role reiterated my decision to seek a work-life balance to avoid burnout and continue doing what I love.
Continuous learning: As I often remind myself, just as every patient is different, so is every mentee, and I must adapt my approaches to meet them where they are and for what they need at that moment. Mentorship is incredibly valuable for pushing us beyond the one-size-fits-all mentality to keep us evolving, learning and improving.
Lasting legacy: A good mentor teaches others to lean into their best selves. I’ll never forget the doctor I met at the beginning of medical school who taught me to listen deeply and look beyond the surface to see others’ stories, struggles and strengths. The lessons he taught me remain the cornerstone of my practice in family medicine today.
I firmly believe some people are bound or even hard-wired for a specific career destination. Having the opportunity to serve as a mentor means we have the chance to help others find their way to doing what they love. For me, the outcome is almost always worth the ride.
Nicole Lawson, M.D., is the 77th president of the Arkansas Academy of Family Physicians, the state’s largest medical specialty organization with nearly 1,500 members. She practices family medicine and is a faculty member at Unity Health in Searcy.
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