“The truest statement I could ever make about life as a single parent is, ‘You have to live it to know it,'” says Amy King, an Arkansas Single Parent Scholarship recipient.
It’s almost impossible to understand life as a single-parent student unless you’ve been there. But we’re here to let you in on a few secrets with help of ASPSF, an Arkansas nonprofit that provides scholarships and support to parents pursuing education in hopes of building a brighter future for their families.
ASPSF students gave us an inside look at their reality and the hidden joys they experience. Read on to discover a perspective you may not have expected.
1. We consider it a blessing.
Life as a single parent gives us the perfect opportunity to build a close relationship with our children. We’re much more aware of the importance of quality time with our kids since time is such a precious resource in our household.
2. We’re proud to be single parents.
For many single parents, the decision to live this life took more courage than many realize. Our title as a single parent is not a failure. It’s a badge of honor.
3. We’re teaching our kids important lessons.
Parenting alone is not without challenges, but it does have a silver lining. The challenges we face often spur personal growth and give us the opportunity to model resilience for our children.
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4. We’re super organized.
You might imagine a chaotic home where kiddos run wild and structure is nonexistent. While it is true that you can only chase one child in any one direction at a time, and circus events regularly take place in my home, single parents actually rely heavily on structure. When there’s only one of you, routine is key.
5. We’ve mastered multitasking.
Kids’ homework? Your Comp paper? Dinner? Playtime? Bandaging boo-boos? We’ve seen it all and we’ve become adept at managing at least three crises at once. If you need tips on how to multitask, call a single parent.
6. We’re self-sufficient.
One of the most prevalent misconceptions about single parents is that we need handouts and aren’t willing to work hard to provide for ourselves. While many single-parent students do benefit from additional support offered by assistance programs and Pell grants, almost all are striving to be self-sufficient. These resources provide a hand up, not a handout, allowing us the opportunity to invest in ourselves and transform the future for our children.
With the help of community support, ASPSF empowers single parents as they work hard to pursue their dreams. You can join in giving the life-changing gift of education. Click here to learn more.
